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You can use the daily give and take between you and your partner, especially the difficult moments, as opportunities to deliberately stretch past your selfish self to be more caring.www.marriagehelp-newyork.com Read more

As you make progress in your relationship your “me first” ego no longer has exclusive control, a more unselfish, caring aspect of yourself emerges. www.marriagehelp-newyork.com Read more

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You make it clear that your partner is your top priority when they see that you are willing and able to have their happiness and well being be just as Read more

Can you describe what makes your partner feel happy and unhappy in your relationship? Not your opinion about it, but what it is that she/he actually thinks and feels, what Read more

A happy marriage means not being selfish and we are all, to varying degrees selfish that's why marriage is a challenge.www.marriagehelp-newyork Read more

Your present pattern of holding onto hurts and angers is coloring how you see and react to one another. www.marriagehelp-newyork.com Read more

Don't let your ego play the blame game and spend a lot of energy making yourself right and your partner wrong.www.marriagehelp-newyork.com Read more

In a well functioning relationship we are each aware of not being critical and judgmental of ourselves and of each other. www.marriagehelp-newyork.com Read more

In a healthy relationship each partner is aware of excessive self-centered "me" thinking.  “Me Thinking”: The voice of your ego inside your head constantly chattering about self-centered concerns having to do Read more

Having empathy and feeling compassion is what love looks like in a good relationship. www.marriagehelp-newyork.com Read more

In lasting relationships partners carefront anger. Carefronting anger means taking the hot emotion out of anger by approaching it with care and attention the way you would a wounded friend.www.marriagehelp-newyork.com Read more

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Personal integrity is essential. It creates a level of trust between partners that is unquestioned.  mwww.marriagehelp-newyork.com Read more

Make marriage work, be flexible, cooperative and willing to compromise.www.marriagehelp-newyork.comPhone, Skype, Face Time and Zoom sessions now available. Read more

Fault finding leads to conflict. Offering praise creates harmony.www.marriagehelp-newyork.comPhone, Skype and Zoom Sessions Now Available. Read more