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Can you describe what makes your partner feel happy and unhappy in your relationship? Not your opinion about it, but what it is that she/he actually thinks and feels, what Read more

A happy marriage means not being selfish and we are all, to varying degrees selfish that's why marriage is a challenge.www.marriagehelp-newyork Read more

Your present pattern of holding onto hurts and angers is coloring how you see and react to one another. www.marriagehelp-newyork.com Read more

Don't let your ego play the blame game and spend a lot of energy making yourself right and your partner wrong.www.marriagehelp-newyork.com Read more

In a well functioning relationship we are each aware of not being critical and judgmental of ourselves and of each other. www.marriagehelp-newyork.com Read more

In a healthy relationship each partner is aware of excessive self-centered "me" thinking.  “Me Thinking”: The voice of your ego inside your head constantly chattering about self-centered concerns having to do Read more

Having empathy and feeling compassion is what love looks like in a good relationship. www.marriagehelp-newyork.com Read more

In lasting relationships partners carefront anger. Carefronting anger means taking the hot emotion out of anger by approaching it with care and attention the way you would a wounded friend.www.marriagehelp-newyork.com Read more

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Personal integrity is essential. It creates a level of trust between partners that is unquestioned.  mwww.marriagehelp-newyork.com Read more

Make marriage work, be flexible, cooperative and willing to compromise.www.marriagehelp-newyork.comPhone, Skype, Face Time and Zoom sessions now available. Read more

Fault finding leads to conflict. Offering praise creates harmony.www.marriagehelp-newyork.comPhone, Skype and Zoom Sessions Now Available. Read more

Selfishness sets couples up for failure, it kills that "in-love" feeling.www,marriagehelp-newyork.com Read more

Remember during these difficult times we are all under a great deal of stress. Under stress we regress so be careful how you treat each other.www.marriagehelp-newyork.com Phone sessions available. Read more

Drop the blame game and be more forgiving.www.marriagehelp-newyork.com Read more

Feelings follow thoughts, what kind of thoughts are you repeating to yourself?  www.marriagehelp-newyork.com Read more