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From the place of less self-righteousness and less blame, you can begin to empathize with one another and drop old attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors that sour feelings of love.www.marriagehelp-newyork.com Read more

Knowing and feeling, without any doubt, that there is another person who knows, understands, and loves us fully and deeply is a core biological, psychological, and spiritual need that we Read more

"Our goal is to help you change the quality of your day-to-day caring so that each of you will feel more fully loved. You will share a genuine intimacy, and Read more

Being able to go past yourself, to delay gratification, to not consistently get your way, to let go of old angers, to not always need to be right, and to Read more

"A good beginning is to put yourself into your partner’s skin and feel what the relationship is like from that perspective."www.marriagehelp-newyork.com Read more

"When a need to control takes hold, every difference of opinion, every clash of needs, and every stressful event that comes up puts emotional and sexual distance between you and Read more

We all have personal issues—mostly fears and insecurities—that get in the way of our caring for ourselves and others. These issues become emotional “hot buttons” that create tension and trigger Read more

"It’s easy to act as if you are sure your view of things is right; the challenge is to give merit and value to the way your partner sees things. Read more

Getting to a “neutral” posture so that you’re not carrying old bad feelings into each new moment is an essential beginning step in healing your relationship. Then, putting one another Read more

"We all have personal issues—mostly fears and insecurities—that get in the way of caring for ourselves and others. These issues become emotional “hot buttons” that create tension and trigger conflict, Read more

"The giving and receiving of genuinely unselfish caring is what creates the special bond of emotional and sexual passion that does not diminish with time." www.marriagehelp-newyork.com  Read more

"Your present pattern of holding onto hurts and angers is coloring how you see and react to one another. It brings negative emotions into every next moment between you. This pattern Read more

"Your present pattern of holding onto hurts and angers is coloring how you see and react to one another. It brings negative emotions into every next moment between you. This pattern Read more

When your “me first” ego no longer has exclusive control, a more unselfish, caring aspect of yourself emerges. This is what is needed to make marriage last.  www.marriagehelp-newyork.com Read more

"Soul mate love is your heart’s true desire, because it satisfies, once and for all, the emptiness of feeling alone and unloved." www.marriagehelp-newyork.com Read more

Being able to go past yourself, to delay gratification, to not consistently get your way, to let go of old angers, to not always need to be right, and to Read more