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"In marriage there is a direct connection between the values you hold and the kind of self you express to your partner." Read more

Be interested in the details of each other’s inner & outer life. www.marriagehelp-newyork.com Read more

Under stress we regress so be mindful of what you take on. www.marriagehelp-newyork.com Read more

"Of all the emotions that come up in an intimate relationship, the one that is potentially most destructive is anger. The reason for this is simple: accumulated anger kills love. Read more

"Feeling understood and cherished, supported and encouraged comes when you reveal yourself without any pretense. It's here at this deeper level of sharing together that lasting passion begins." Drs. Moschetta www.marriagehelp-newyork.com Read more

Can roommates really become soul mates? Yes they can, because human relationships are self-correcting arrangements. Each morning you wake up and begin creating the substance, the tone, and feel of Read more

"Unquestioned trust is essential and necessary for the growth and well-being of your togetherness." Drs. Moschetta Read more

Is living together from a distance what you expected from your relationship? Probably not; when you are married or living together in a committed relationship, being emotionally and sexually distant Read more

 "Insecurities denies us our best possibilities. It makes us act in ugly ways, pushing the one we love away from us. To act sanely and lovingly we must feel secure." Read more

"each time a problem is not solved amicably, each time an appropriate expectation gets disappointed, and each time there is a hurt that is not healed, there are varying degrees Read more

"It's trusting one another without question which allows us both to cross the bridge from insecurity to security. Upon that Foundation, a loving and lasting relationship is built." Drs. Evelyn and Read more

By Drs. Moschetta There will be times when, because of lingering hurt and/or anger, opening up to one another feels especially difficult. You're both walking around with wounded egos. Maybe you Read more

Benign neglect is what happens when you give your time, energy, and attention to everything else in your life except one another.  Please know that in this hectic, busy, life we Read more

“If you are depressed you are living in the past. If you are anxious you are living in the future. If you are at peace you are living in the Read more

Mark and Ellen Mark and Ellen have been married for fourteen years and have a ten-year-old son and a seven-year-old daughter Lucy who has severe learning difficulties. Mark feels that Ellen Read more

In a good relationship you feel: 1. Heard and understood. 2. Emotionally safe and secure. 3. Nurtured by affectionate attention. 4. Sexually desired and fulfilled. 5. Supported by unquestioned trust and commitment. Read more