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Sounds easy, right? Well maybe. If you look inside the lives of happy couples, you'll find partners who make sure they play together. Each may have an interest, sport, or Read more

By Drs. Evelyn and Paul Moschetta In contemporary relationships which are lived from a survival consciousness, very often one partner places coercive expectations on the other. If I expect you to Read more

Keep Each Other New By Drs. Evelyn and Paul Moschetta Why is it that animals are so much more forgiving than humans? If you have ever had a dog or a cat Read more

There will be times when, because of lingering hurt and/or anger, opening up to one another feels especially difficult. You're both walking around with wounded egos. Maybe you feel more Read more

COMMUNICATION By Drs. Evelyn and Paul Moschetta All communication has two dimensions to it, process and content. The process component is more important than the content portion. If your process is good Read more

"We can't communicate" is how most couples begin their first therapy session. They then proceed to demonstrate this fact by interrupting and talking over one another, not listening, blaming, attacking, Read more

By Drs. Evelyn and Paul Moschetta 1. See Your Partner The Way Your Dog Sees You. This means consciously looking at each other through doggie eyes. It means no blaming, judging, criticizing or controlling. It's Read more

Core differences between roommates and soul mates continue from Part 1 of the previous article. 3. Soul mates talk easily and openly with one another. Very little is left unsaid in a strong healthy Read more

The core differences between roommates and soul mates can be seen in how partners treat one another from day to day. The attitudes and behaviors they demonstrate shape how it Read more

A CONVERSATION WITH DRS. PAUL AND EVELYN MOSCHETTA BY EARL MEAGAN FOR BRAIN WORLD MAGAZINE It’s fair to say that one doesn’t have to be married to realize how much hard work Read more

by Drs. Evelyn and Paul Moschetta  There are a lot of men and women who use self protection to avoid giving themselves fully in an intimate relationship, because they believe that Read more

by Drs. Evelyn and Paul Moschetta  Amy and Ben have been living together for eighteen months. Despite feeling that they still love each other, there is a lot of tension in Read more

by Drs. Evelyn and Paul Moschetta  We’ve looked at the ways in which your ego keeps you personally off balance and unsettled. Now let’s see how it interferes with love and Read more

by Drs. Evelyn and Paul Moschetta  Your ego and its survival mentality work from the simple but all consuming principle of “me first.” The main agenda it has is looking out Read more

by Drs. Evelyn and Paul Moschetta  Why? Why do so many couples who start off feeling like soul mates end up as roommates? Here’s the answer: they are trying to have Read more

by Drs. Evelyn and Paul Moschetta  Sally always knew, on some level, that she was disappointed in Bill. She wanted him to be more ambitious, more eager to get ahead. Instead Read more